Wacky Wednesday: Rocky Road

Even as I type this images of the rocky path, the pebbles in a stream, and even the ice cream are visuals.  Reflecting on a list of things this morning which include transitions, loss, joy, memories, friendship, learning, instinct, anger, sadness….

Realizing I must not fight the journey – but be open to wandering the rocky road – which also has these magical moments.

Thirsty Thursdays: Finding Purpose

How do you spend each morning?  How do you find purpose in each day, each hour?

Are you grounded by the fresh air, the sounds of birds, music, the smell of candles or fresh laundry, the rise of the sun or moon, the laughter of friends?

Days can be so full of lists, news, calls, texts, emails, chats, I shoulds…..

How do you sift through that?  What do you visualize to find your safe place, the memories of better days?

I leave you with this thought:   “Having a purpose is the difference between making a living and making a life.” -Tom Thiss

Simplify Your Life: Removing Mental Clutter

What is mental clutter? It can be so many things: the daily tasks ahead, the tasks we didn’t do yesterday, the books I want to read, the photos I need to organize, the calls I need to make, the people I miss, the vacations I want to take, the home improvements I need to do, the weeds I need to pull, the report I must write, the hug I want…..the memories.

Yesterday I spoke with a dear friend, who had been watching coverage of stories from 9/11. She was touched by the people, the pain and her heart was heavy. We are encouraged to remember this tragedy, and by golly she was doing just that. After talking a bit about it, I said, it sounds like it might be time to stop watching that. She paused and then agreed. And then she focused on the fun she was going to have with her sweetheart as they would watch a local football game.

I use this example because I want to show the effects of mental clutter. You see this is a woman whose partner has been sick for six months, who is always grieving the loss of her youngest daughter, who has tales of a social worker that are heart bending, and a list of to dos that is likely much longer than I am aware of.

My challenge to you today, is to find a way to simplify your life, so that you are not so drawn in by the mental clutter that you can’t see beyond. It could be as simple as clearing or organizing the top of your desk. Or taking a break to breath and really think about what’s worthy of your attention that’s also healthy for your heart.